(Now I’m wondering how many of you clicked on this note just because of the title. But don’t worry, you haven’t been fooled. I really am going to talk about sex in this note.)
Things have been happening lately that have made me stop and think about some things, especially concerning relationships. So… sex. You know, sex is really a beautiful thing that was actually ordained by God. It is a pleasure that he gave us to have. Something that binds a man and a woman together. In having sex, that man and woman become one. So now as I’m writing this I think, sex is like a marriage ceremony. An action to show that two people have become one. (And yes… two people do become one. You become joined together… literally) (oh no! I probably just freaked someone out!... eh, get over it.) Ok so here’s a couple points I want to make on this topic.
1. Something that was so beautifully created by God for our pleasure has been turned into something so dirty and perverse. Why? I mean, the media shows us this passionate mess of fake emotions and empty love. It’s like sex has become a drug or alcohol to some. Going thru a hard time? SEX! Whoohoo! Cure all! And idk, to me personally, the sex that the media portrays seems so dirty and pornographic! I mean, the sex that we have come to know is one that (for many of us) can’t imagine our grandparents (or maybe even parents) doing! How could such (in some cases) old-fashioned people done something so sleezy? (I mean married or not here too!) They didn’t! Hollywood has made sex sleezy when really it’s a very beautiful thing!
2. Ok, ya’ll ready for this point? (Yeah, all you sissy’s should probably just stop reading here. This might be too much for you to handle.) Ok, so you know how I said earlier about how sex makes two people become one? (Don’t try to argue it…) Here’s my thing… SOME PEOPLE ARE BECOMING ONE WAYYYY TOO EARLY!!! Most middle schooler’s are not ready for marriage… so WHY ARE THEY HAVING SEX? It’s the same thing in a way. The emotions are the same! I mean, a lot of high schoolers aren’t even ready! Ulg, I really wish some people would think about these things. And you know how many relationships are being built on physical intimacy?!? WAY TOO MANY! Take out all that physical stuff and hey, you might be able to build a real relationship! (I know… too tough a challenge for many of you. Wanna show ur strong? King of the world? Try manning it up and waiting for that “one”.)
Ok, last thing I was thinking about. Unfaithfulness. If someone is going to be unfaithful… there is nothing you can do to stop it. No matter how many times you have sex with them, or how well you treat them, or how much you bribe them… they’re gonna cheat! Ok, so I have this theory. Instead of killing yourself trying to be perfect, and trying to please them physically constantly (and then feeling you aren’t good enough when they leave you), try leaving the physical stuff out. If a person can stay with you (and NOT cheat on you) when there is no sex, then hey… you might actually be on to something! If that person will stay with you, that means that they most likely LOVE you. …and love ALL of you, not just your body.
Have I been harsh in this note? Maybe. I’m just tired of people getting hurt. I know I can’t make decisions for you, and I know that many of you will probably ignore most of what I said because you think it’s just my opinion and that you know better. (Which if you think that and your methods have only led to hurt before, then I might have to say… TIME TO TRY ANOTHER METHOD!) Sex should be with the person that you want to become one with because when you have sex, your body are not only joining as one, so are your hearts. You may think a one night stand isn’t going to affect your heart, but if anyone out there can prove that to me, then hey, I’m all ears! Idk, most of all I just want all to respect yourselves, and respect sex! Keep it beautiful!
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